Actually I have a question to
the guys
Why is it when it comes to
personal grooming and dressing, a guy starts to get damn lazy about
it after getting attached, married or after being married for x no.
of years. -_-“
You know I’ve started
comparing the single guy friends I have with the ones attached and
I noticed there is a disparity in the amt of effort they put into
grooming and maintaining their figures and dressing compared to the
attached and married ones
In a way I’m complaining coz
I find MPB getting lazier in this aspect as time goes by
-_-“
I think you need to ask a more fundamental question: why do guys
want to do personal grooming and dress up?
Barring personal minimum hygene and standards, there are only 2
practical reasons:
1) impress/ leave a good first impression on others including
your boss
2) impress and attract the mate.
Given that they feel less and less need for the 2nd (due to
being attached or being more confident the mate will not run
because of this), and the need for the first declines as you build
a reputation or portfolio. Is there a logical reason to waste time
and energy?